I am 25 years old...
Finally, I CAN VOTE!!!!
WHo will I vote?
MUSt read news ardently now... WOhLALA.
Thursday, April 27, 2006
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
The good, the bad and the ugly
Since young, I've never been the "pretty friend"
The pretty friend is always clad in perfect outfit accessorizing with the perfect shoes and bags.. She never seems to have bad hair, skin, outfit or bad breath day. She know that she is attractive and use it to her maximum advantages.She will turns head whenever she go and if you want to be invisible, there is no better Companion than a pretty friend. Sales stuff will always serve her first even when both of you make a request. More evident if the stuff is a hum sup one.
C is my first encounter of a pretty friend. She is technically not a friend, as she is part of my extended family. She is pretty and cute, my aunties and uncles all like to ohh and argh at her. She is prefect in their eyes and always wear those fluffy pink dress. She looks like a princess and this make me look bad.
I am the next in the family line and if she is not around, maybe my confidence were not be shatter in such a early stage... Tho eventually will still be shatter by some body
" WAH , such a ugly baby" as I was bald and flaking.
" Look like a boy boy, wear skirt also no use"
GRRRRh, I was so unfortunate... It was even worse as we have the same birthday.
And my whole extended family will like give her so many presents, all nice and princess like looking, during the birthday. They will then coincidently forget that it was mine as well and muffed some apologies.
If a toddler can swear, I wld have swear. Still my mum wld say stuff like you were not pretty mah, so...TOO BAD, it was the fact of life. Honestly, I really like C as she is real sweet and pretty, we may have become best of friends if not for those bias adults...
Anyway, she marry a real nice good-looking chap. The kind that all my aunties Orhh and arghh during the Chinese New Year visit, while my other male cousins were sulking in one corner... I just sat there and gloat.
Due to the "education" early in my life, I see myself as a Ugly friend and I have no problems making friends with those pretty gals as I am not jealous of their looks.
The jealously will always be between those pretty ones. Scenarios will be like this
Girl A is pretty and popular with boys. Girl B is pretty but then not as outspoken and not so popular. One day POpular boy like girl B and girl A is jealous altho she may not like this popular boy, all becos tat her queen bee position was shaken. Poor girl B will then find herself alone in class and all those girls in girl A clique will not befriend her. This is called follow the leader example.
Naturally, I wun be in the girl A gang. They wun hate me tho as I was non-threatening. I will then befriend girl B as I felt sorry for her. THUS ta da, I gained a pretty friend.
Tats why I always have pretty friends all around me. Some of the pretty friends tell me that it is actually hard to make friends with gals and most of their pals are guys. No prob, they can look for me for companionship as having pretty friends have lots of advantages.
1) When shopping, will be asked more often to do suvery then when shop on my own. Then can obtain free goodies after the survey.
2) Will have more opportunties to bio shuai ge as pretty friends have shuai male friend as well.
3) Free Food, free ride,free KTV sessions from suitors of those pretty friends as they have to appear generous to you in front of your friend.
4) Can obtain fashion advices from those pretty friends.
In turn... I help to
1) sieve out those cmi suitors.
2) provide listening ear to their emotional turmoil.
3) validate their good looks when they stand next to me.
Thus wat a Win- win situations sia.
The pretty friend is always clad in perfect outfit accessorizing with the perfect shoes and bags.. She never seems to have bad hair, skin, outfit or bad breath day. She know that she is attractive and use it to her maximum advantages.She will turns head whenever she go and if you want to be invisible, there is no better Companion than a pretty friend. Sales stuff will always serve her first even when both of you make a request. More evident if the stuff is a hum sup one.
C is my first encounter of a pretty friend. She is technically not a friend, as she is part of my extended family. She is pretty and cute, my aunties and uncles all like to ohh and argh at her. She is prefect in their eyes and always wear those fluffy pink dress. She looks like a princess and this make me look bad.
I am the next in the family line and if she is not around, maybe my confidence were not be shatter in such a early stage... Tho eventually will still be shatter by some body
" WAH , such a ugly baby" as I was bald and flaking.
" Look like a boy boy, wear skirt also no use"
GRRRRh, I was so unfortunate... It was even worse as we have the same birthday.
And my whole extended family will like give her so many presents, all nice and princess like looking, during the birthday. They will then coincidently forget that it was mine as well and muffed some apologies.
If a toddler can swear, I wld have swear. Still my mum wld say stuff like you were not pretty mah, so...TOO BAD, it was the fact of life. Honestly, I really like C as she is real sweet and pretty, we may have become best of friends if not for those bias adults...
Anyway, she marry a real nice good-looking chap. The kind that all my aunties Orhh and arghh during the Chinese New Year visit, while my other male cousins were sulking in one corner... I just sat there and gloat.
Due to the "education" early in my life, I see myself as a Ugly friend and I have no problems making friends with those pretty gals as I am not jealous of their looks.
The jealously will always be between those pretty ones. Scenarios will be like this
Girl A is pretty and popular with boys. Girl B is pretty but then not as outspoken and not so popular. One day POpular boy like girl B and girl A is jealous altho she may not like this popular boy, all becos tat her queen bee position was shaken. Poor girl B will then find herself alone in class and all those girls in girl A clique will not befriend her. This is called follow the leader example.
Naturally, I wun be in the girl A gang. They wun hate me tho as I was non-threatening. I will then befriend girl B as I felt sorry for her. THUS ta da, I gained a pretty friend.
Tats why I always have pretty friends all around me. Some of the pretty friends tell me that it is actually hard to make friends with gals and most of their pals are guys. No prob, they can look for me for companionship as having pretty friends have lots of advantages.
1) When shopping, will be asked more often to do suvery then when shop on my own. Then can obtain free goodies after the survey.
2) Will have more opportunties to bio shuai ge as pretty friends have shuai male friend as well.
3) Free Food, free ride,free KTV sessions from suitors of those pretty friends as they have to appear generous to you in front of your friend.
4) Can obtain fashion advices from those pretty friends.
In turn... I help to
1) sieve out those cmi suitors.
2) provide listening ear to their emotional turmoil.
3) validate their good looks when they stand next to me.
Thus wat a Win- win situations sia.
Saturday, April 22, 2006
Election??? Am I voting?
This is the first time that I MAY finally have a chance to vote for the first time. Having been living in Sembawang GRC for like AGES, there wasn't even a remote rumour of opposition rearing its head in the GRC...
This year, it was different... cos we change our HEAD... and our head is a target for the recent " you know wat" scandal. Thus I may have chance to vote... WilL I vote, will I not... will be reveal soon, on the 27th...
EXCITED SIA...
This year, it was different... cos we change our HEAD... and our head is a target for the recent " you know wat" scandal. Thus I may have chance to vote... WilL I vote, will I not... will be reveal soon, on the 27th...
EXCITED SIA...
Sunday, April 09, 2006
Alpha FEMALE, To be or not to be...Afterthots
Read ST today... The article on the Alpha Female set me thinking.. Can I be labeled as an Alpha Female... Wahhaha
According to ST, Alpha female:
* is Successful in work
* Looks Good
* High earning
* Confident
Okie, successful in work I am not, looking good is a joke, If I am high earning I shd be able to afford manolos. Is confidence another word for my superb acting skills? Chay so I am not an alpha female.
Guess that I am just an Alpha wannabe. Most of the girls that I noe are not the typical conventional girls that will take the back role our man, no longer are we just statisfied to be the moral support. We want the action,we want the meat roles, we want the sky... Wahahaha *evil* smirk
Success used to mean being the wife of a political/financial big shot... NOw, success is to be the big shots ourselves. Look at the news, look at the slew of female political candidates... Look at my idol, Hillary Clinton... (okie, I am yet to finish her biography but still, I admire her)
"Some reluctant to be Alpha female" will tell me that AF will seen to be less attractive to male... Durhhh Everyone will be entitled to their own opinions. Well, some guyw do prefer to marry "down" as gals who are stronger or do better than them does not invoke the protective instinct of such man... Thus some of my friends suggested that maybe we shd act helpless initially then shows our true characters... haha Prehaps... Still there are men who appreciate those Alpha female and are actually proud of their success. Thus we shdn't just abandon our Alpha dream just because some guys dun like it...rather be a rich singleton than a repressed wife.
According to ST, Alpha female:
* is Successful in work
* Looks Good
* High earning
* Confident
Okie, successful in work I am not, looking good is a joke, If I am high earning I shd be able to afford manolos. Is confidence another word for my superb acting skills? Chay so I am not an alpha female.
Guess that I am just an Alpha wannabe. Most of the girls that I noe are not the typical conventional girls that will take the back role our man, no longer are we just statisfied to be the moral support. We want the action,we want the meat roles, we want the sky... Wahahaha *evil* smirk
Success used to mean being the wife of a political/financial big shot... NOw, success is to be the big shots ourselves. Look at the news, look at the slew of female political candidates... Look at my idol, Hillary Clinton... (okie, I am yet to finish her biography but still, I admire her)
"Some reluctant to be Alpha female" will tell me that AF will seen to be less attractive to male... Durhhh Everyone will be entitled to their own opinions. Well, some guyw do prefer to marry "down" as gals who are stronger or do better than them does not invoke the protective instinct of such man... Thus some of my friends suggested that maybe we shd act helpless initially then shows our true characters... haha Prehaps... Still there are men who appreciate those Alpha female and are actually proud of their success. Thus we shdn't just abandon our Alpha dream just because some guys dun like it...rather be a rich singleton than a repressed wife.
Monday, April 03, 2006
NEw Bored Air-headed ME
Long time nv blog liao... Pretty busy with all those sch matters.
But I HAve Finally Finish my exam paper woh...
HAHHAHAA
and I have pass my JAP test too... Heng ah , tot I will surely failed... I have been po Bied.
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Meet few friends + their friend this weekend, find I cannot click with those friend's friends. Here are some of the reason.
1) I dun talk abt my past relationship with others. I dun understand why will anyone talk about their exes to almost complete strangers?....HELLO I dun need to know such stuff bah... Somebody is just so weird.
2) No common topic about songs or which movie do we like (Other light hearted topic like Do you beleive in Feng Shu, Do you believe that your fav colours depicts your personality... etc are missing)
3) My joke backfired... I mean where is the sense of humour? NO need to be so serious right.I miss my close friends whom I can clown together.*cry*
4) NO one really enjoy shopping or tok abt shopping. [NO one want to tok abt how will the closing down of hush hush and OZOC affect us (My Jap classmates's fav shop). Liver and Nine west are having sales, or where is the best place to grab some chiong bag in HOngKong (Typical garfield and me tok)]
Okie, either I am childish or are really so different. If pple want something substantial, I can talk abt Politics or global warming, bird flu or even Quantum physic...Want me to show my serious side, ask me to solve a problem lah, I think I can provide creative ideas. Either I lost my human touch or I am simply so bored that I dun make any effort to be entertaining.
Example of my BOred Reply
"Stranger": So what do you like to do during weekend.
NEw BORed air-headed me: Shopping loh
"Stranger": Wah So free ah, shopping.
NEw BORed air-headed me think: HUH?
NEw BORed air-headed me: Okie lah, I do some sports too.
FULL Stop.
Or maybe I should say that I ponder about the meaning of life everyday and reflect upon my action so that I can constantly improve myself. I read shakespeare and love classical music like Bach, Chopin and Lizt. My favourite book is....as it is so aspiring. My fav scientist is Stephen Hawking. Despite his illness he can still contribute so much to the scientific world. To prevent Alzheimer,I have to play chess frequently..... BLAh Blah blah *LOL*
Dun think they will appreciate this kind of JOKE lah.
No matter what, why am I be accused of being shy or nervous or maybe interested in someone in the crowd. It is because Some pple are weird or maybe... the weird person is me.
But I HAve Finally Finish my exam paper woh...
HAHHAHAA
and I have pass my JAP test too... Heng ah , tot I will surely failed... I have been po Bied.
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Meet few friends + their friend this weekend, find I cannot click with those friend's friends. Here are some of the reason.
1) I dun talk abt my past relationship with others. I dun understand why will anyone talk about their exes to almost complete strangers?....HELLO I dun need to know such stuff bah... Somebody is just so weird.
2) No common topic about songs or which movie do we like (Other light hearted topic like Do you beleive in Feng Shu, Do you believe that your fav colours depicts your personality... etc are missing)
3) My joke backfired... I mean where is the sense of humour? NO need to be so serious right.I miss my close friends whom I can clown together.*cry*
4) NO one really enjoy shopping or tok abt shopping. [NO one want to tok abt how will the closing down of hush hush and OZOC affect us (My Jap classmates's fav shop). Liver and Nine west are having sales, or where is the best place to grab some chiong bag in HOngKong (Typical garfield and me tok)]
Okie, either I am childish or are really so different. If pple want something substantial, I can talk abt Politics or global warming, bird flu or even Quantum physic...Want me to show my serious side, ask me to solve a problem lah, I think I can provide creative ideas. Either I lost my human touch or I am simply so bored that I dun make any effort to be entertaining.
Example of my BOred Reply
"Stranger": So what do you like to do during weekend.
NEw BORed air-headed me: Shopping loh
"Stranger": Wah So free ah, shopping.
NEw BORed air-headed me think: HUH?
NEw BORed air-headed me: Okie lah, I do some sports too.
FULL Stop.
Or maybe I should say that I ponder about the meaning of life everyday and reflect upon my action so that I can constantly improve myself. I read shakespeare and love classical music like Bach, Chopin and Lizt. My favourite book is....as it is so aspiring. My fav scientist is Stephen Hawking. Despite his illness he can still contribute so much to the scientific world. To prevent Alzheimer,I have to play chess frequently..... BLAh Blah blah *LOL*
Dun think they will appreciate this kind of JOKE lah.
No matter what, why am I be accused of being shy or nervous or maybe interested in someone in the crowd. It is because Some pple are weird or maybe... the weird person is me.
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